At some point, I may have commented that I would voice my thoughts on homosexuality and marriage in a more public place than I have used in the past, and now seems an appropriate time. Maine has just voted against extending marriage to same-sex couples, and while I am not a citizen of Maine, I despise seeing others force religious teachings into laws.
A Brief Detour
YSEE and the
Societas Hellenica Antiquariorum (organizations in Greece) both have policies against homosexuality. The Societas Hellenica Antiquariorum prohibits people of alternative sexualities from being religious officials and marriage ceremonies because homosexuality is a “physical defect.” YSEE doesn’t support marriage equality because, back in the good old days of arranged Athenian marriages, it just wasn’t done. I am unsure whether YSEE is publicly coming out against marriage equality because they feel politically intimidated by the Orthodox Church or if they sincerely think marriage equality will destroy Hellenic tradition as we know it.
People debated those organizations’ stances several months ago. I don’t want to focus on them, mostly because I
don’t want the comments to turn into a flamefest.
(Consider this a moratorium.) Rather, I will focus on the United States.
Polytheism and Marriage Equality
Polytheists who don’t support marriage equality have very little to base it on. In the ancient world, arranged marriages generally prevented people from making any choice at all. Only in the modern Western world do we see the emphasis on love as a necessary factor. In
Disney movies, weddings always happen, no matter what the social differences between the two may be: Cinderella and Prince Charming, Aladdin and Jasmine, Shrek and Fiona. Arranged marriages, the common Western wisdom says, only happen in third-world countries where women are treated like chattel.
“Arguments” Against
If love is now necessary in the West for community approval of a marriage, how is love between two men or two women any different from love between a man and a woman? Of course children cannot be produced in the same way, but how many married straight couples use adoption? How many don’t have children at all? With a population exceeding humanity’s carrying capacity (see: third world starvation), we cannot afford to believe that fertility is most important in a marriage. Indeed, overpopulation is killing humanity!
The immorality argument about homosexuality, along with
the belief that civil marriage is against religious freedom, are both false. Think about all of the faiths that
do have liturgy for same-sex unions.
Unitarian Universalism. Wicca.
Evangelical Lutheranism.
United Church of Christ. What about
their religious freedom to perform same-sex unions? What about atheists, who have no religious prohibitions against any behavior at all? In the West, the immorality argument comes from Judeo-Christian thought and the Book of Leviticus. (Christians who take Leviticus literally, when is the last time you had a mold-infested garment looked at by your priest?)
What about marrying cows or young children? How is “gay marriage” any different? These things cannot happen because marriage is restricted to sentient adults (and some teenagers with their parents’ permission). A cow cannot offer consent. A four-year-old girl cannot offer consent. A human of any age with a severe mental disability cannot, in most cases, offer consent. Spock’s father could. Chewbacca (oh, mental images!) could.
Reality Reloaded
Legislation against marriage equality is invalid, even if backed by popular vote, because the arguments against it are religious. Religion does not belong in American legislation, no matter how much the closet Dominionists want it to. Anti-equality laws are no more constitutional than those declaring one state or another Christian (one of which was passed in Missouri, where I lived for two-thirds of my childhood). The slope between legislation like this and legislation requiring [an equally unconstitutional] religious litmus test for public office is slippery (or even between this and religious indoctrination in public schools). Incidentally—and yes, slightly off-topic—religious favoritism is also why creationism or intelligent design should NEVER be taught in science classrooms.
The Place of Hellenic Polytheism
So, with that said, what do I think about marriage equality and Hellenic Polytheism? I think that religious ceremonies should exist for those in places where marriage equality is allowed, simply because this covers all bases.
What about tradition? I’m not talking about changing the marriage ritual for heterosexual couples, or even making same-sex couples use it. I’m talking about supplementing what exists now with something done in the Hellenic spirit,
or at least admitting that such a thing is possible. We have done this before.
Heliogenna, a Hellenic Winter Solstice celebration, is a response to Christmas and Yule. Dedicated people translated the spirit of the season into Hellenic terms and ended up with something meaningful.
There is a difference between reconstruction as a cage and reconstruction as a road. The road takes you places, some scary, some comforting. A cage leads nowhere but death.
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Athena god statue” by mpalis on iStockPhoto.